8 Ways to Help Ease Your Child's Fear of the Dentist
Dentist. Just saying that word and reading that word brings
up a lot of anxiety for people. Even for grown adults who have been
visiting dentists their whole lives, or avoiding them their whole lives.
I don’t know what it is about the profession that makes many people
afraid (myself included), but I do know it’s quite common.
When it comes to our kids, being afraid of the dentist can be a
difficult thing. We want to teach them the importance of oral care and
want their experiences with the dentist to be easier than ours, but
sometimes their anxiety and fear gets in the way. I know my kids are
always anxious before their appointment, and it’s hard as a parent to
watch.
If your child struggles with anxiety and fears about dental visits, they’re not alone. In a study published in the
Eurpoean Journal of Dentistry in 2011, titled “
Children’s Perception of Their Dentists“,
out of the 583 children in the study, 11% didn’t like their visit to
the dentist, and 12% stated that they were afraid — that’s a big number
so you can see it’s quite common.
Here are some simple tips on how to help ease the fear your child has
of the dentist that will make the process easier on all of you:
Easing Your Child’s Fear of the Dentist
Keeping in mind that being afraid of the
dentist and unknown things is normal, there are ways you can help ease
your child's fears.
1) Find a Dentist Who’s Good With Kids
A good dentist really goes a long way when it comes to dental fears.
Find someone through recommendations who is good with kids. Usually
pediatric dentists are great with kids and have great offices set up.
2) Explain Often the Importance of Oral Health
Have regular conversations about why it's important to brush and floss
and visit the dentist. Talk regularly, because then it won't seem so out
of the norm to take care of your teeth.
Have regular conversations about why it's important to brush and floss
and visit the dentist. Talk regularly, because then it won't seem so out
of the norm to take care of your teeth.
3) Meet and Greet Time
Before your child goes in for their first appointment, have a meet and
greet first. Take your child to the
office to see the place, meet the
dentist and try out the chair before any procedures are done.
4) Make Regular Dental Visits
The more regularly they
visit (every 6 months), the less afraid they will be because it will become less unknown.
5) Explain in Terms They Understand
Let your child know what to expect, but in terms they understand. Tell
them, or ask the dentist to tell them, what they're doing and what to
expect so they won't be so afraid.
6) Don’t Share Your Own Fears
I personally am not a fan of the dentist, never have been, but I am
careful never to share that with my kids. If you do, it could very well
make them more afraid and stressed.
7) Tell Your Child’s Dentist
If your child is feeling anxious or afraid, let the dentist know. They
may be able to help ease their fear and treat them with a little more
care.
8) Avoid Scary Words
Kids and scary words don't really get along well. Avoid using words like
"hurt" or "freezing" or "shot" with your kids if you think it could
make them more anxious.
My 10 year old is one of those children that is scared of the dentist. I should have used your advice and brought her in early on for check ups. Now she gets so scared every time I tell her that we are going in for a cleaning. I will try taking her in to meet the dentist not during an appointment so she can see he is just a regular guy like you mention. http://www.skeelsdentistry.com/
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